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The Time is Now (How to Get Ready for the Opportunity)

November 26, 2010 By Victor Pride 16 Comments

Historically, fortunes have been made more so in times of great economic downturns than in times of great prosperity. We are in the midst of the worst depression in most of our lives. And there has never been a better time to make a lot of money and do some good in the world at the same time.

Most people will tell you that now is not the time to start a business. Now is not the time to take a risk. You need to hold on to that crummy J.O.B. (just over broke) because it pays and it’s hard to find a job right now. These people will tell you that you are crazy for taking a chance.

Everyone is one of “those” people at some point. Scared to take a chance. But not you. Not anymore. In fact, it is precisely because of “those” people that now is the time to start your own thing. Why? Because no one else is. Everyone is scared to think outside the box.

And that’s why you’re going to make your fortune and they are going to toil away in the “safe” jobs with all those great benefits (insurance that they pay for, loss of time and freedom, bending to the will of others, paying more taxes than the average millionaire etc..).

So what should you tell those people about why you’re starting a new business and what it’s all about? Nothing. Don’t tell anyone anything about your plans. There are two reasons for this.

1) Statistically you are less likely to follow through with your plans if you start blabbing about them. The reason is that you subconsciously feel like you have accomplished them simply by talking about them and are less active in actually fulfilling them. How many times has someone told you their great plan to make money and then never followed through with anything? My guess is a million.

2) People will tell you that you are crazy or dumb or both. They will come up with all kinds of reasons and excuses to try and talk you out of doing anything. Deep down no one wants their friends and co-workers to do better than them. That’s why you simply don’t say anything.

So now you know what not to tell people. Now you’re asking yourself what kind of business to start and not tell people about. Well, I could give you all kinds of ideas about businesses to start but they wouldn’t mean anything. Deep down in your heart of hearts you know what type of business you want to start. You may not be able to put your finger on it but you will, eventually.

I spent years trying to figure out what I wanted to do. I knew what I didn’t want to do. I didn’t want to wake up every morning, put on clothes I didn’t want to wear, rush out the door to sit in traffic for an hour, get to a job I hated, let them tell me when I can take my break, sit in another hour of traffic to get home. All for – what is now in hindsight – a crummy, crummy paycheck.

Now I wake up when I want to, which is way earlier than I ever wanted to wake up when I hated my job. I work from my home office and I generally wear a pair of black shorts to work. I get most of my business done in the morning and do whatever else I want throughout the day. Which is mostly work related. You’ll find you work way harder when you love what you do.

Anyway, back to what type of business to start. What I used to do is visualize what I wanted to do. I didn’t know exactly what type of business it would be but I would visualize myself dressed very well and spending most of my working day driving around to various appointments.

I’m a real estate investor so most of my work is spent driving around to peoples houses to see if I want to buy them (the houses, not the people). Before I knew what I wanted to do I had a vision in my head of how I would do it.

I used to live in a tiny little one bedroom apartment. Technically it was the worst place I ever lived. It was actually the best though. That was my laboratory. I would sit around and write out lists of what I could do and what I couldn’t do. Trying to figure out where I could start a business and how. I would write notes to myself that had my goals on them and tape them all over the walls.

People who came over thought I was crazy. But those little notes worked. I suggest you do the same. The motivation from these notes is terrific. The best one I had was a note taped across my computer monitor that read “I will be in business for myself by such and such date”. And you know what? I was in business for myself by that date.

For those wanting to start their own business I would suggest leading a very Spartan lifestyle. I don’t mean by killing Persians, but I do mean getting rid of things you don’t need. There is no point in paying a $1500 mortgage if you can rent for $400. There’s no point in leasing a Jag for $700 a month if you can buy a running Toyota for $2,000.

No point in going out to eat every night if you can survive on a can of soup and a cheese sandwich. Now is not the time to be wasteful with your money. You need every dime you can get your hands on and it’s ok to live like a bum. It will pay off in the end.

Ask yourself these questions:

Will this $100 cable bill with 500 channels help me reach my goals?

If the answer is no, cancel the cable!

Will going out tonight with my friends and spending $75 on food and drinks help me reach my goal?

If the answer is no, don’t do it!

As your business you need to either pick something you love or something you are en expert at. You need to devote all of your time and energy to that endeavor. Start reading books every single week. I don’t mean the new Michael Crichton or the new Stephen King, or that new romance book you saw at Wal-Mart.

Those books don’t exist anymore. Start reading auto-biographies of successful people. Start reading books that have to do with your chosen field. Start reading business books and motivational books. Read all of those books you can get your hands on. Never stop reading those books.

Start exercising! A healthy body is a healthy mind. You will need to be in good shape to start your own business. There will be very, very stressful times ahead and it will help if you are in good physical shape.

Lay off the cigarettes and booze too. Those do nothing to help you achieve your goals. They only help to kill you faster. Even if you don’t have a business idea yet, you ARE waiting for the opportunity. Opportunity comes to those who are prepared.

In fact there is an opportunity out there waiting for you right now.

What are you going to do when opportunity presents itself?

Will you take it?

….or will you let it pass you by?

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Comments

  1. AvatarParker says

    November 26, 2010 at 8:42 pm

    I often think about all the opportunities that come ones way. At times we are not prepared for it so it passes us. Other times we are prepared for that opportunity and we are able to take advantage. Who knows how many times we are peppered with opportunities but being ready is key.

    Nice article Sir.

  2. AvatarSerge says

    December 1, 2013 at 4:28 pm

    One of the most underrated posts on this amazing site!

    Cheers VP

    • AvatarBob Smith says

      December 8, 2013 at 10:43 am

      I second that!

  3. AvatarBob Smith says

    December 8, 2013 at 10:42 am

    Wow!

    Victor, how in the hell do you write such good articles? You never cease to amaze me. (I know, you are probably sick and tired of my compliments, but I can’t help it, lol.)

    Also, was there a breaking point in your life, “the straw that broke the camel’s back,” so to speak, that finally made you take total control of your life? If so, what was it?

    Sincerely,
    Bob

    • AvatarVictor Pride says

      December 9, 2013 at 7:41 pm

      Bob, there is one thing I do that a lot of writers don’t do. I write in plain English. Breaking point? I was broke and then I fixed it. Thank you for the compliments.

  4. AvatarDemetris says

    January 29, 2014 at 12:53 am

    I have a question about when you started getting ready for your own business. I’m finding it hard to figure out whether or not to keep a minimum wage job while I get ready for my business. I don’t have a true savings. Did you just let it all go, or did you keep a little job there for cash while you got your startup going?

    • AvatarVictor Pride says

      January 29, 2014 at 8:01 am

      You should never quit your job just to “get ready”. You should BE READY when you quit your job.

  5. Avatarbear says

    June 8, 2014 at 5:22 pm

    Pure Gold!

  6. AvatarTheGreyWolf says

    April 27, 2015 at 3:53 am

    This is the beginning, and the reason most people fail.

    They skip the beginning and jump to the middle.

    Kind of like entering a bodybuilding contest after no diet and no exercise.

  7. AvatarTed says

    July 8, 2015 at 7:08 pm

    I’ve known about your blog for around thee months, every few weeks when i’m feeling down and like shit i come read it for inspiration. I feel like i have found gold every time i read it. I’m only 17 and in my final year of high school, i feel as if everyone around me is just happy to follow the norm, i aspire to be different so badly. I’m in a cross roads, i haven’t been to the gym for 7 months, my life is entirely dedicated to school and i have quit all my hobbies MMA, gym and my casual job. I have an application in the Australia army as an officer, and also several university applications. I don’t know what i want in life, i feel entirely directionless, i’m still young and wish i knew someone in real life like yourself, my parents and friends all offer the same advice, the boring advice and normal advice. Why should i take advice from people i aspire to be nothing like…

  8. AvatarFrank says

    August 22, 2015 at 8:30 pm

    Pretty helpfull, today I quited my job on the corporate world.From now on, I’ll concentrate on myself.

  9. AvatarChris says

    October 9, 2015 at 12:49 am

    I love going back to these old posts. I’ve learned a great deal from your latest ones and reading where it all began is incredibly motivating.

    I’m about to take a big leap in my life/career, and this post filled my determination tank up.

    “Opportunity comes to those who are prepared.” Gonna stick this to my wall, right freakin now.

    Thanks for the hard work you put in when I was still out there being one of “those” people.

  10. AvatarMark E says

    June 14, 2016 at 3:25 pm

    Freaking glorious. I know it isn’t on your approved book list but you’d like the $100 startup I think.

  11. AvatarWhat I liked and didn't like about 30 Days of Discipline says

    July 24, 2016 at 3:57 pm

    Do you believe in the Law of Attraction Vic?

    “Anyway, back to what type of business to start. What I used to do is visualize what I wanted to do. I didn’t know exactly what type of business it would be but I would visualize myself dressed very well and spending most of my working day driving around to various appointments.”

  12. AvatarPJ Pires says

    October 16, 2017 at 10:54 pm

    OLD BUT GOLD.

  13. AvatarAndrew Makarov says

    March 18, 2019 at 10:37 am

    An article packed with a lot of good suggestions. I hugely second the part on not spending the money on stupid shit. Not worrying about paying for stupid shit helps you concentrate on task in-hand. Plus no debt helps get off of the plantation much faster.

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